Playing Hooky

I let my daughter stay home from school on Friday, and she wasn't sick.  It was so funny because I didn't really think that was a very big deal, but I got a very mixed reaction.

My husband asked why?  I said because she wanted to and she always wants to go to school.  I figured if she was tired, then why not follow her lead.  After all it is the holiday season, it's a crazy time of year, why not take a day where nothing is planned and we do what we want in the moment, with no agenda. 

A friend of mine said that her mom called them "mental health" days.  I was allowed to play hooky occasionally when I was a child.  Maximum, maybe once or twice a year, so I didn't abuse it. Both of my parents worked full time so it was only when they could be home with me which wasn't very often.

The holiday season is so packed with special traditions and getting together with family and friends that we don't see all of the time.  If you can, why not take a break or stay in like we did and string popcorn, make ornaments, have hot cocoa and watch a Holiday movie.

It's not teaching her to be lazy, it's teaching her to listen to her body and what she needs.  And it was a great day!
 
Hope you are taking care of your self, Happy Holidays! 
Perry Mama

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